Sonia Morales, the ex-wife of Nollywood actor, IK Ogbonna in a post on Instagram, pointed out that someone might be driving you crazy behind closed doors and still call you public crazy.
The Colombian beau also pointed out that ranting publicly might not be enough to express what women are going through.
Sonia Morales wrote:
“It mostly applies to men, not because “men are evil beings “ (trust me there are some amazing guys out there) but simply because men know society will ALWAYS favour them. A woman can be mentally & physically abused for years and being blamed for what she is facing at the same dame time! WILL YOU NOT GO CRAZY??! If she tries to leave, they will shout “go back & fix your home”. And who will fix the broken you? Some even justify violence and acts of criminal offences with “no marriage is perfect” .. are you people ok? Many guys don’t even bother being better men to their women because they feel like women HAVE NO CHOICE & culture and society makes our voices meaningless (we almost labelled as mad, delusional, bad, senseless and crazy when we try to stand for ourselves) and our pain is absolutely normalized, you suffer in silence and on your own while smiling on the outside (if your own mother tells you “go back & pray harder”, who you really get support from?). No matter situation, no matter what you put her through, its woman’s fault & she “caused it”… right? …. OK…….Then all of a sudden ….there goes SOCIAL MEDIA… A voice to voiceless LOL. Ranting is too much? Trust me, nothing compared to what we go through. Do u have an idea how it feels like to be a female in this society? Oppressed left right and centre! But that’s none of your problems. However, SOCIAL MEDIA got y’all shaking & praying for “good women” � Out of the sudden, yall have opinions �Things are about to change for good so I advise: try & be a GOOD MAN first and no lady will ever have an emotional need to heal through social media rantings & best believe yall safe .”